Leslie Attached has 3 audiobooks on Listento.it, narrated by 2 narrators, with an average listener rating of 1★ across 1 ratings. The most-rated is Insecure in Love.
Insecure in Love
Summary
When people first get into a relationship, the early days are nothing short of magic, and the lovers are all over each other, staring at one another with wistful eyes, and they have not a grain of doubt that they have finally met “the one”! But then, months (or years) later, where there was stomach butterflies upon seeing each other, there’s an understated loathe and distrust, and maybe, one or both partners are no longer excited about having sex. What happened? Maybe, they think they look ghastly. Maybe, they are jealous about their partner getting close with their workmate. Maybe, they feel inadequate. These are major signs that the partner is trapped in the jaws of insecurities. If they don’t act fast enough to rid themselves of these insecurities, the love they once had for their partner will water down, and soon enough, their relationship will be tossed into the bottomless pit of failed relationships. If they are the type of lovers with a high threshold for pain, then they're in for a long and bumpy roller-coaster ride of negative emotions.The biggest sign that someone is insecure is a tendency to cling onto their partner. This means that they will start following their partner around, never wanting to be separated, and when their partner is out there trying to get a life, the insecure person will take every opportunity to try to contact them. They are basically afraid of losing their partner. They will reach for their phone and text them, video call them, and send funny images and videos to them. The insecure person will expect their partner to respond promptly because any delay can cause them tremendous emotional pain. You would think that having someone chasing you everywhere makes you like them even more; but the opposite is true. When a person acts insecure in love, their partner becomes frustrated, and in the beginning, they cannot make it obvious, but as the insecure person escalates their clingy behavior, their partner subtly starts to evade them, but then, it reaches a point and they become exhausted and they send out a strong and clear message: I hate what you are doing! At this point, the insecure person will literally be acting like a slave. Except, in this case, they have not been forced into that situation. Insecurity is caused mainly by a terribly low self-esteem. In order to overcome insecurities, you have to confront the deep-seated issues that have pulled your self-esteem down, and you have to work on building your self-esteem. It is also important to increase your emotional intelligence and self-awareness so that you may understand the connection between your thoughts and actions.The more you understand yourself, the easier it becomes to overcome your low self-esteem and become a suitable partner. This book looks into the subject of insecurities in relationships and helps you to understand how they play out and what you must do to overcome them. The actionable tips will help you become not just a great partner but a great person, in general.
©2019 Leslie Attached (P)2020 Leslie Attached
Insecurity
Summary
Do you struggle with relationships? Has it been your experience that you have a hard time starting and maintaining healthy relationships? Our life is conditioned by our love relationships and beyond. What happened? The more you understand yourself, the easier it becomes to overcome your low self-esteem and become a suitable partner. It is also important to increase your emotional intelligence and self-awareness so that you may understand the connection between your thoughts and actions. Insecurity is caused mainly by a terribly low self-esteem. In order to overcome insecurities, you have to confront the deep-seated issues that have pulled your self-esteem down, and you have to work on building your self-esteem. These books were created in order to help you overcome your insecure attachment issues and your insecurity in love. Let's face it. Relationships play an important role in making us happy. But then, they have to be healthy relationships. These books aims to help you overcome insecure attachment and start leading your best life. We have processed on the various signs that indicate that one is suffering from insecure attachment, touched upon the causes of insecure attachment, and most importantly, we have shown the proven methods to overcome insecure attachment issues. Some of the topics include: Insecure attachment decoded Attachment in to your partner Childhood trauma Low self-esteem Failure and rejection Components of a healthy relationship The actionable tips will help you become not just a great partner, but a great person in general.
©2020 Leslie Attached (P)2020 Leslie Attached
Insecure Attachment
Summary
Do you struggle with relationships? Has it been your experience that you have a hard time starting and maintaining healthy relationships? Maybe you have a lopsided attitude about what healthy relationships are supposed to be like, and you end up making it all about yourself. You may have developed an obsession with your partner, so that you always want to be around them, never letting go, hogging their space. Maybe you have taken to being dramatic, so that if you don’t get your way, you start the drama, hoping your partner will bend to your will. Sometimes you shut off, refuse to engage with your partner, and start reliving your memories, both good and bad, or you focus on your fantasies. Sometimes you are anxious about the stability of your relationship. It rings in your mind that your partner might finally realize they made a mistake and get away from you, and such thoughts make you terribly scared because the last thing you want is to be abandoned. And as a result, you obsess about your partner even more. Sometimes you are cold. Sometimes you are hot. You get cowardly at times and indirectly resist your partner. Many times, you are caught in a storm of emotions you can hardly make sense of. If the experiences above remotely point to what you go through, you must be suffering from insecure attachment issues. This book has been authored in order to help you overcome your insecure attachment issues. Let’s face it. Relationships play an important role in making us happy. But then they have to be healthy relationships. Insecure attachment issues deny you the opportunity to form healthy relationships because you exhibit various toxic habits that ultimately undermine the health of your relationship. In order to have healthy relationships, you must get rid of your insecure attachment issues. Psychologists believe that insecure attachment is rooted in early childhood experiences. Kids that grew up under loving parents so that their emotional needs were catered to are likely to grow up to be secure people who expect the best from the world. But then kids that had nasty parents and grew up in an emotionally reckless environment are the most likely to exhibit insecure attachment issues in later life. Such kids turn out to be distrustful of other people and exhibit emotional recklessness that makes it hard for them to start and maintain healthy relationships with other human beings. Childhood trauma makes an individual most susceptible to insecure attachment issues, but psychologists believe there are still other causative factors including low self-esteem and failure. This book aims to help you overcome insecure attachment and start leading your best life. We have elaborated on the various signs that indicate that one is suffering from insecure attachment, touched upon the causes of insecure attachment, and most importantly, we have shown the proven methods to overcome insecure attachment issues. Some of the topics include: Insecure attachment decoded Childhood trauma Low self-esteem Anxiety
©2019 Leslie Attached (P)2020 Leslie Attached