Dr. Theresa J. Covert has 13 audiobooks on Listento.it, narrated by 4 narrators, with an average listener rating of 4.2★ across 21 ratings. The most-rated is Gaslighting: The Narcissist's Favorite Tool of Manipulation.
Gaslighting: The Narcissist's Favorite Tool of Manipulation
Summary
Still struggling from the effects of an abusive relationship? Many people do and sadly there is very little information available to be found online or in the written research, or with counselors and therapists that can help. The Gaslight Effect is not officially recognized, nor is it widely even known. Even when it is accepted, recognized and known, not many people seem to know what to do about it to heal it.... The fact is being in a relationship with a narcissist over a long period of time has long lasting traumatic effects that can be extremely catastrophic to the person suffering them. Do the following symptoms sound familiar? Doubting yourself and your sanity Feeling like you’re losing your mind Feeling like you’re always apologizing You’re second-guessing your memory Feeling like you aren’t good enough Feeling misunderstood Feeling lonely Ruined self confidence Extreme weight loss or weight gain Uncharacteristic jealousy/insecurity Feeling like you don’t know the difference between right and wrong Extreme paranoia (being turned into an obsessive detective) Endless, repetitive obsessive thinking about your ex Constantly trying to find explanations for what has happened Feelings of helplessness and despair A desire to self-isolate Feeling desperately misunderstood Overwhelming feelings of loss and grief Extreme bouts of rage An inability to be comfortable with yourself Strange dreams Sudden inexplicable anxiety followed by rapid dips into depression The list goes on.... “Nobody understands!” I hear this frustrated cry from abused people a lot. Gaslighting is a covert aggressive way of distorting another person’s perception of reality to the point that that person questions their sanity or their memory. Gaslighting is crazy-making, it makes you think that you’re actually going crazy. Gaslighting is a way of hiding the abuse. Gaslighting is lying with a goal. The motive behind the gaslighting is to make you think that you’re crazy or that your memory doesn’t work right. So you can’t trust yourself and your perceptions of reality. This means you’ll defer to the abuser for an account of what’s real so slowly over time the abuser becomes the authority over your life. Gaslighting takes place in relationships, like one-on-one relationships. It takes place in friendships, in family, in work, you’ll see gaslighting on the news, you’ll hear gaslighting coming from politicians, corporate shills, cult leaders, advertising commercials, etc. What you will learn: Top 10 signs you're being manipulated with gaslighting 80 things narcissists say during gaslighting Six empowering ways to disarm a narcissist and take control How to avoid mental manipulation How to deal with the effects of gaslighting How narcissists employ smart devices What you need now: Someone who has been through the same experiences you have and understands them from the inside Someone who has the knowledge, training, education, and experience working on himself and others to lead you through the emotional sh*tstorm that breaking with a narcissist can create I can’t promise you that listening to this audiobook is going to be a “total cure”, but I can promise that if you apply yourself dilligently, take notes, listen and re-listen the sections, follow all instructions to the letter, with a tenacious resolve to get better you will feel an instant decrease in anxiety within the first 24 hours and should see huge improvements within the first three days. This is not hype, this is what my audience commonly reports.
©2019 Dr. Theresa J. Covert (P)2019 Dr. Theresa J. Covert
Divorcing and Healing from a Narcissist
Summary
A life-changing audiobook for anyone trapped in an unhealthy marriage or relationship Divorce isn’t such a tragedy. A tragedy is staying in an unhappy marriage, teaching your children the wrong things about love. Nobody ever died of divorce. Does any of this sound familiar? Do you try to calmly talk with them about basic things, only for it to end up in an argument? Were they once incredibly charming and said all the right things, but now they are mean, apathetic, or passive aggressive? Have you tried to change yourself or your feelings, because you know they refuse to change, merely because they don’t think they have to? Do you feel incredibly alone, like no one will understand, because to everyone else they are perfect? Have you been cheated on yet somehow they make it your fault? Or perhaps you have already broken up, yet you are constantly sucked back in by their begging, promises to change, or even threats? Have you promised yourself that you will end the relationship, only to find yourself going back to them because you feel guilty, sorry for them, or afraid of being alone or good? You are in a relationship with a narcissist, and if you haven’t figured it out already, they will never, ever change. It is difficult to get divorced or break up with a narcissist without someone who has been through the same experiences you have. Otherwise, you may make costly financial mistakes by hiring the wrong attorney or giving away your assets, all because you don’t know any better. You can stay in the relationship and be unhappy, or you can choose to break free. But how do you actually break free? It is not easy, I know. Because I have been there. I was you. What you need now: Someone who has been through the same experiences you have and understands them from the inside. Someone who has the knowledge, training, education, and experience working on himself and others to lead you through the emotional s--tstorm that breaking with a narcissist can create. I can’t promise you that listening to this audiobook is going to be a "total cure", but I can promise that if you apply yourself dilligently, take notes, listen to the chapters, and follow all instructions to the letter with a tenacious resolve to get better, you will feel an instant decrease in anxiety within the first 24 hours and should see huge improvements within the first three days. This is not hype, this is what my audience commonly report.
©2019 Dr. Theresa J. Covert (P)2019 Dr. Theresa J. Covert
Narcissist: The Ultimate Guide
Summary
Still struggling from the effects of a narcissistic or psychopathically abusive relationship? Many people do and sadly there is very little information available to be found online or in the written research, or with counselors, and therapists that can help. Narcissistic victim syndrome is not officially recognized, nor is it widely even known. Even when it is accepted, recognized and known not many people seem to know what to do about it to heal it.... The fact is being in a relationship with a narcissist over a long period of time has long lasting traumatic effects that can be extremely catastrophic to the person suffering them. Do the following symptoms sound familiar? Ruined self confidence Doubting yourself and your sanity Mood swings Sleeplessness Extreme weight loss or weight gain Uncharacteristic jealousy/ insecurity Feeling like you don’t know the difference between right and wrong Extreme paranoia (being turned into an obsessive detective) Endless, repetitive, obsessive thinking about your ex Constantly trying to find explanations for what has happened Feelings of helplessness and despair A desire to self isolate Feeling desperately misunderstood Overwhelming feelings of loss and grief Extreme bouts of rage An inability to be comfortable with yourself Strange dreams Sudden inexplicable anxiety followed by rapid dips into depression The list goes on.... What you need now: Someone who has been through the same experiences you have and understands them from the inside. Someone who has the knowledge, training, education, and experience working on himself and others to lead you through the emotional sh*tstorm that breaking with a narcissist can create. I can’t promise you that listening to this book is going to be a “total cure”, but I can promise that if you apply yourself diligently, take notes, repeat the chapters, follow all instructions to the letter, with a tenacious resolve to get better you will feel an instant decrease in anxiety within the first 24 hours and should see huge improvements within the first three days. This is not hype, this is what my audience commonly report. Get this book today!
©2019 Dr.Theresa J. Covert (P)2019 Dr.Theresa J. Covert
Dealing with a Narcissist
Summary
Still struggling from the effects of a narcissistic or psychopathically abusive relationship? Many people do and sadly there is very little information available to be found online, or in the written research, or with counselors, and therapists that can help. Narcissistic victim syndrome is not officially recognized, nor is it widely even known. Even when it is accepted, recognized and known not many people seem to know what to do about it to heal it.... The fact is being in a relationship with a narcissist over a long period of time has long lasting traumatic effects that can be extremely catastrophic to the person suffering them. Do the following symptoms sound familiar? Ruined self confidence Doubting yourself and your sanity Mood swings Sleeplessness Extreme weight loss or weight gain Uncharacteristic jealousy/ insecurity Feeling like you don’t know the difference between right and wrong Extreme paranoia (being turned into an obsessive detective) Endless, repetitive obsessive thinking about your ex Constantly trying to find explanations for what has happened Feelings of helplessness and despair A desire to self isolate Feeling desperately misunderstood Overwhelming feelings of loss and grief Extreme bouts of rage An inability to be comfortable with yourself Strange dreams Sudden inexplicable anxiety followed by rapid dips into depression The list goes on.... “Nobody understands!” I hear this frustrated cry from abused people a lot. I felt the same way when I was recovering from emotional abuse at the hands of a narcissistic/borderline psychopath. If you try and tell people who have no experience with a narcissist (there is no experience like being with a narcissist, its not their fault they can’t understand) about it they will either deny your experience, tell you you are exaggerating, or look at you like you were crazy. “Maybe my ex is right, maybe it really is me....” What you need now: Someone who has been through the same experiences you have and understands them from the inside. Someone who has the knowledge, training, education, and experience working on himself and others to lead you through the emotional sh*tstorm that breaking with a narcissist can create. I can’t promise you that listening to to this book is going to be a “total cure”, but I can promise that if you apply yourself dilligently, take notes, listen, and re-check the chapters, follow all instructions to the letter, with a tenacious resolve to get better you will feel an instant decrease in anxiety within the first 24 hours and should see huge improvements within the first 3 days. This is not hype, this is what my audience commonly report.
©2019 Gabriele Di Dio (P)2019 Gabriele Di Dio
Narcissistic Fathers
Summary
Do you think your father might be toxic? Many people do and sadly there is very little information available to be found online or in the written research, or with counsellors and therapists that can help. Narcissistic Victim Syndrome is not officially recognised, nor is it widely even known. Even when it is accepted, recognised, and known not many people seem to know what to do about it to heal it. But first, a warning: Before we go further, let me make something abundantly clear: This audiobook does not contain a "magic wand" that will bring you instant answers without having to do any work. What I’m about to share with you takes both time and effort and has worked wonders for me and my private clients. And I believe it can help you too. But this only works for those who are willing look deep inside themselves and are committed to finding true happiness. So with that said, let me tell you: As a child: You felt like you were never good enough Your father didn’t seem to care about your feelings Your father was very controlling and manipulative You were made to feel bad or wrong if you got upset Your needs weren’t met As an adult: You still feel like you are not good enough You feel confused, anxious, sad in your relationship with your father Your father puts you down, and never celebrates your achievements Your father is very critical, manipulative, controlling, and tells lies They still don’t seem to care about your feelings or your needs You feel like you are the one parenting them This audioook is for you if you have been in a toxic relationship with your parent and you just want to make sense of it and make some changes. What are you waiting for? Buy this audiobook now!
©2020 Dr. Theresa J. Covert (P)2020 Dr. Theresa J. Covert
Dating a Narcissist: The Brutal Truth You Don't Want to Hear
Summary
Still struggling from the effects of dating a narcissist? Many people do and sadly there is very little information available to be found online or in the written research, or with counselors and therapists that can help. Narcissistic victim syndrome is not officially recognized, nor is it widely even known. Even when it is accepted, recognized and known not many people seem to know what to do about it to heal it… The fact is being in a relationship with a narcissist over a long period of time has long lasting traumatic effects that can be extremely catastrophic to the person suffering them. Do the following symptoms sound familiar? Ruined self confidence Doubting yourself and your sanity Mood swings Sleeplessness Extreme weight loss or weight gain Uncharacteristic jealousy/ insecurity Feeling like you don’t know the difference between right and wrong Extreme paranoia (being turned into an obsessive detective) Endless, repetitive obsessive thinking about your ex Constantly trying to find explanations for what has happened Feelings of helplessness and despair A desire to self isolate Feeling desperately misunderstood Overwhelming feelings of loss and grief Extreme bouts of rage An inability to be comfortable with yourself Strange dreams Sudden inexplicable anxiety followed by rapid dips into depression The list goes on.... You are dating a narcissist, and if you haven’t figured it out already, they will never, ever change. You can stay in the relationship and be unhappy, or you can choose to never date a narcissist again. It is not easy, I know. Because I have been there. I was you. They are smart enough to know what you are looking for at the level of your core values and mold themselves to appear to represent that whilst provoking as much sympathy in you for them as they can. But beneath the mask of a shy, vulnerable and “good person” something far more sinister lurks. A social chameleon who would wear a completely different identity depending on who they were talking to A sneaky, underhanded way of operating in the world that only those closest to them ever get a glimpse of A person whose actions rarely match their words “They seemed so good-hearted and vulnerable, I just wanted to help…” “Maybe my ex is right, maybe it really is me….” “Am I just being paranoid?” “Nobody understands!” I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had clients tearfully admit this to me in state of absolute despair. What you need now: Someone who has been through the same experiences you have and understands them from the inside Someone who has the knowledge, training, education and experience working on himself and others to lead you through the emotional sh*tstorm that breaking with a narcissist can create I can’t promise you that listening to this book is going to be a “total cure”, but I can promise that if you apply yourself diligently, take notes, listen and re-listen to the chapters, follow all instructions to the letter, with a tenacious resolve to get better, you will feel an instant decrease in anxiety within the first 24 hours and should see huge improvements within the first three days. This is not hype, this is what my audience commonly reports. What are you waiting for? Scroll up, click on the "Buy Now" button!
©2019 Dr. Theresa J. Covert (P)2019 Dr. Theresa J. Covert
Narcissistic Mothers: The Truth About the Problem with Being the Daughter of a Narcissistic Mother, and How to Fix It
Summary
Still struggling from the effects of a narcissistic or psychopathically abusive relationship? Many people do and sadly, there is very little information available to be found online or in the written research, or with counsellors and therapists that can help. Narcissistic Victim Syndrome is not officially recognised, nor is it widely even known. Even when it is accepted, recognised, and known not many people seem to know what to do about it to heal it.... The fact is being in a relationship with a narcissistic mother over a long period of time has long lasting traumatic effects that can be extremely catastrophic to the person suffering them. DO THE FOLLOWING SYMPTOMS SOUND FAMILIAR? Ruined self-confidence Doubting yourself and your sanity Mood swings Sleeplessness Extreme weight loss or weight gain Uncharacteristic jealousy/insecurity Feeling like you don’t know the difference between right and wrong Extreme paranoia (being turned into an obsessive detective) Endless, repetitive obsessive thinking about your mother Constantly trying to find explanations for what has happened Feelings of helplessness and despair A desire to self-isolate Feeling desperately misunderstood Overwhelming feelings of loss and grief Extreme bouts of rage An inability to be comfortable with yourself Strange dreams Sudden inexplicable anxiety followed by rapid dips into depression The list goes on. “NOBODY UNDERSTANDS!” I hear this frustrated cry from abused people a lot. I felt the same way when I was recovering from emotional abuse at the hands of a narcissistic/borderline psychopath. If you try and tell people who have no experience with a narcissist (there is no experience like being with a narcissist, its not their fault they can’t understand) about it, they will either deny your experience, tell you you are exaggerating, or look at you like you were crazy. “Maybe my mother is right, maybe it really is me.” WHAT YOU NEED NOW: Someone who has been through the same experiences you have and understands them from the inside. Someone who has the knowledge, training, education, and experience working on himself and others to lead you through the emotional s--tstorm that breaking with a narcissistic mother can create. WHAT YOU WILL LEARN How to recognize your narcissistic mother Signs of a narcissistic mother Treatment for children of narcissistic mothers Things narcissistic mothers say for mental manipulation and control Protection tips How to heal now from abuse! Separating from a narcissistic mother And much more.
©2019 Dr. Theresa J. Covert (P)2019 Dr. Theresa J. Covert
Should I Stay or Should I Go
Summary
If you're struggling to decide if you should stay or go in a relationship, please read this! Dear friend, If you are struggling to decide if it's worth fighting for your relationship or if it's time to leave, and you're serious about finding that answer...this book is the most important book you’ll ever read. But first, a warning: Before we go further, let me make something abundantly clear: This book does not contain a "magic wand" that will bring you instant answers without having to do any work. What I’m about to share with you takes both time and effort and has worked wonders for me and my private clients. And I believe it can help you, too. The exact process I’ll be sharing with you has taken several of my clients from a state of frustration and feeling "stuck" to crystal clarity as to what they should do. But this only works for those who are willing to look deep inside themselves and are committed to finding true happiness. So, with that said, let me tell you exactly what you’re getting... First of all, this is different from any other "relationship" book you’ve ever read or listened to. This book is all about you. It's about helping you get clear on what will serve you best and deliver the most happiness without any regrets. Plus, this is a simple listen. You can listen to it in an afternoon. And you’ll immediately begin to see the path toward the happiness you deserve and have been looking for. It's about more than just this one decision. What you'll take from this book will serve you in all your relationships for the rest of your life. What you'll be learning can be applied to all your relationships, and most important to the one you have with yourself. Here’s a fraction of what you’re getting: The real cause of the shift from wedded bliss to loneliness. The most important thing you need to do now so you don’t remain stuck in indecision. Why it’s critical you choose wisely with whom you discuss your struggling marriage and why the wrong choice can end a marriage worth saving. The one single thing you need to focus on at all times to find the clarity and confidence you want. The single biggest thing that keeps women stuck in indecision and how to overcome it. Five specific tips to give your marriage any hope of feeling good again that you can implement in your marriage starting today. The very first thing you should do if and when you realize the marriage is over. And so much more... You'll discover: How to know if hope actually exists for your struggling marriage or if it is beyond recovery. How to interrupt the same recurring painful patterns and why nothing ever seems to get resolved. How to identify what’s not working in the relationship that is actually working for you. Why up to 74 percent of marriages are failing right now and what to do about it for your own life so you’re not just another statistic. What you should do if “he needs to change” but seems to be fine with mediocrity. What to do when you have love for him...but aren’t in love with him. You have to choose between “happiness” and staying together, right? Wrong! How to pave the path to happiness inside your marriage if that’s what you want. This approach doesn’t require your partner to participate. I set out to develop a process that an individual can use to clearly determine if they should recommit to the relationship or lay the foundation to lovingly leave. What I lay out in the book works for you...and while your partner is welcome to participate, it isn't necessary in order for you to find the clarity you're looking for. Regardless of which path you choose, the anger and frustration toward your partner will soften.
©2019 Dr.Theresa J. Covert (P)2019 Dr.Theresa J. Covert
How to Handle a Narcissist, Sociopath or Psychopath
Summary
“Nobody understands!” I hear this frustrated cry from abused people a lot. I felt the same way when I was recovering from emotional abuse at the hands of a narcissistic/borderline psychopath. If you try and tell people who have no experience with a narcissist (there is no experience like being with a narcissist. It's not their fault they can’t understand) about it, they will either deny your experience, tell you you are exaggerating, or look at you like you were crazy. “Maybe my ex is right, maybe it really is me....” What you need now: Someone who has been through the same experiences you have and understands them from the inside. Someone who has the knowledge, training, education, and experience working on himself and others to lead you through the emotional shitstorm that breaking with a narcissist can create. I can’t promise you that listening to this audiobook is going to be a “total cure”, but I can promise that if you apply yourself diligently, take notes, hear and rehear the chapters, and follow all instructions to the letter with a tenacious resolve to get better, you will feel an instant decrease in anxiety within the first 24 hours and should see huge improvements within the first three days.
©2020 GD Publishing LTD (P)2020 GD Publishing LTD
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
Summary
Still struggling from the effects of an abusive relationship? Many people do and sadly there is very little information available to be found online or in the written research, or with counsellors and therapists that can help. The Gaslight Effect is not officially recognized, nor is it widely even known. Even when it is accepted, recognized and known not many people seem to know what to do about it to heal it.... The fact is being in a relationship with a narcissist over a long period of time has long lasting traumatic effects that can be extremely catastrophic to the person suffering them. But first, a warning: Before we go further, let me make something abundantly clear: This book does not contain a "magic wand" that will bring you instant answers without having to do any work. What I’m about to share with you takes both time and effort and has worked wonders for me and my private clients. And I believe it can help you too. The exact process I’ll be sharing with you has taken several of my clients from a state of frustration and feeling "stuck", to crystal clarity as to what they should do. But this only works for those who are willing look deep inside themselves and are committed to finding true happiness. So with that said, let me tell you.... Do the following symptoms sound familiar? Doubting yourself and your sanity Feeling like you’re losing your mind Feeling like you’re always apologizing You’re second-guessing your memory Feeling like you aren’t good enough Feeling misunderstood Feeling lonely Ruined self confidence Extreme weight loss or weight gain Uncharacteristic jealousy/ insecurity Feeling like you don’t know the difference between right and wrong Extreme paranoia (being turned into an obsessive detective) Endless, repetitive obsessive thinking about your ex Constantly trying to find explanations for what has happened Feelings of helplessness and despair A desire to self isolate Feeling desperately misunderstood Overwhelming feelings of loss and grief
©2020 GD Publishing LTD (P)2020 GD Publishing LTD
Narcissistic Abuse
Summary
Individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder engage in chronic devaluation and manipulation of their partners, a psychological and emotional phenomenon known as narcissistic abuse. I hope with all my heart that this guide can help those who at this moment find themselves sunk in a relationship with individuals who have narcissistic/malignant personality disorders, the individuals in question are often called psychos, very often inappropriately, by those who do not know exactly what it means to deal with an individual with this type of personality and peculiarity. I will not talk about the events I had with them specifically out of respect, but I will demarcate the guidelines and behaviors that these people implement in most cases, first to suck the soul and feelings out of the prey, and then to leave it in oblivion and in total confusion. Pathological mind games, covert and overt put-downs, triangulation, gaslighting, projection, these are the manipulative tactics survivors of malignant narcissists are unfortunately all too familiar with. As victims of silent crimes where the perpetrators are rarely held accountable, survivors of narcissistic abuse have lived in a war zone of epic proportions, enduring an abuse cycle of love-bombing and devaluation. In this book, survivors will learn: Eight signs you are suffering from Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome. How they control your mind. Six keys to build immunity to Narcissistic Abuse. Tips for people who have suffered abuse from narcissist. The motives behind narcissistic abuse and techniques to resist a narcissist's manipulation.
©2019 Dr. Theresa J. Covert (P)2019 Dr. Theresa J. Covert
The Covert Narcissist
Summary
Still struggling from the effects of a narcissistic or psychopathically abusive relationship? Many people do and sadly there is very little information available to be found online or in the written research, or with counsellors and therapists that can help. Narcissistic Victim Syndrome is not officially recognised, nor is it widely even known. Even when it is accepted, recognised, and known, not many people seem to know what to do about it to heal it...The fact is being in a relationship with a narcissist over a long period of time has long lasting traumatic effects that can be extremely catastrophic to the person suffering them. Do the following symptoms sound familiar? Ruined self confidence Doubting yourself and your sanity Mood swings Sleeplessness Extreme weight loss or weight gain Uncharacteristic jealousy/ insecurity Feeling like you don’t know the difference between right and wrong Extreme paranoia (being turned into an obsessive detective) Endless, repetitive obsessive thinking about your ex Constantly trying to find explanations for what has happened Feelings of helplessness and despair A desire to self isolate Feeling desperately misunderstood Overwhelming feelings of loss and grief Extreme bouts of rage An inability to be comfortable with yourself Strange dreams The list goes on... Covert Narcissists dangle their vulnerability in front of you as bait, just waiting for your good nurturing mothering/fathering instincts to kick in and rescue the poor little lost child they are presenting to you. But beneath the mask of a shy, vulnerable and “good person” something far more sinister lurks. And this what makes covert narcissism so damaging and dangerous: The nature of the disorder is such that you are brainwashed into thinking you are dealing with a human being with a morality, perhaps even a “pillar of the community”.
©2019 Gd Publishing Ltd (P)2020 Gd Publishing Ltd
The Gaslight Effect
Summary
Still struggling from the effects of an abusive relationship? Many people do, and sadly, there is very little information available to be found online, in the written research, or with counsellors and therapists that can help. The "gaslight effect" is not officially recognized, nor is it widely even known. Even when it is accepted, recognized, and known, not many people seem to know what to do about it to heal it. The fact is, being in a relationship with a narcissist over a long period of time has long-lasting traumatic effects that can be extremely catastrophic to the person suffering them. Gaslighting is "crazy-making". It makes you think that you’re actually going crazy. Gaslighting is a way of hiding the abuse. Gaslighting is lying with a goal. The motive behind gaslighting is to make you think you’re crazy or that your memory doesn’t work right. So, you can’t trust yourself and your perceptions of reality. This means, you’ll defer to the abuser for an account of what’s real, so slowly, over time, the abuser becomes the authority over your life. Gaslighting takes place in relationships, like one-on-one relationships, friendships, in family, and at work. You’ll see gaslighting on the news, and you’ll hear gaslighting coming from politicians, corporate shills, cult leaders, advertising commercials, etc.
©2020 GD Publishing Ltd (P)2020 GD Publishing Ltd