Lily Lovell has 11 audiobooks on Listento.it, narrated by 10 narrators, with an average listener rating of 2★ across 1 ratings. The most-rated is Gaslighting: Take Back Your Power.
Gaslighting: Take Back Your Power
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All around you, gaslighters are succeeding in life. They are competitive. They rely on deception and malevolence to get what they want. They step on your head and climb the ladder without even thinking about your wants, hopes, dreams, or feelings. They don’t care about your thoughts or opinions. They do what they want; they do it when they want. The gaslighter doesn’t answer to anyone. You stand by wondering how you can be more like the gaslighter who controls and dominates you at every turn in your everyday life. You are tired of being a doormat. We don’t blame you. This audiobook will provide you positive affirmations to help you reverse the power struggle that is prevalent in your relationships with exploiters and manipulators. You will learn how to think like an exploiter and manipulator. We will be your cheerleader so that you get up everyday and think like your competition. You must brainwash yourself into being more powerful rather than being victim to others. You must train yourself to look at the world like an exploiter does so that you aren’t on his hit list. Do you want to know a little more about the world that revolves around you and learn a little more about yourself? Are you tired of being passed up on opportunities because you are morally and ethically inclined? You deserve more out of life. This audiobook will disclose the unsaid realm of the inner workings of life and the strategies to gain power over others. Learn why you should... Get the audiobook now to hear more.
©2019 Lily Love LLC (P)2020 Lily Love LLC
Sweet Revenge: Gaslight the Gaslighter (Personal Support Included)
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You can’t believe it! The person who is supposed to like or love you is gaslighting you. You are at your wits end with them. They are causing you to feel as though your entire world is upside down. The gaslighter makes you feel as though everyone else is out to get you. They pit everyone against you because crowds are easier to manipulate than individual people are. They drop hints and rumors so that other people believe bad things about you. Not even the truth can be heard by these sheep who stuffed cotton in their ears so far as you were concerned! They are both blind and deaf to the truth, and you are at the butt end of the joke. You can hardly see straight through their proverbial smoke screen. You want to get out, but they are always two steps ahead of you. You can’t see how you got yourself into the mess in the first place. The gaslighter had you targeted. He probably figured out all your weaknesses long before that first conversation he had with you. He had to formulate his strategy to dominate and control you after all. He must know his enemy, so he got to know you before you could know anything at all about him. Everything he portrayed to you was fake. Now, you have found yourself in some kind of a pickle that you struggle to get out of. The noose is tightening more and... Download now to hear more.
©2019 Lily Love LLC (P)2020 Lily Love LLC
Gaslighting: Warrior Gene Conditioning
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Gaslighting is an insidious form of brainwashing and mind control forced onto you by another human being. This person is willing to stoop to any levels to dominate and control you. He or she is not working together with you. The person is competing against you. The gaslighting individual values objects and status and popularity - his or her own objects, status, and popularity. The gaslighter almost never has your best interests at heart. His intentions and goals aligning with yours, usually, is a pure coincidence rather than something he or she aligned intentionally. Picture the great leader who starts a war. He views his people as resources that are at his disposal to acquire other resources for him. He launches propaganda and puffs up his chest to other leaders and countries to show them that he is the top dog. He pretends to be more than he is, and he pretends his army is more than what they are. We will talk to the gaslighter in this book. We will climb inside his head to show you what he is thinking. We will show you the tactics the gaslighter may use. We will show you how callous his emotions can be. These tactics will help expose the gaslighter. Interested? Buy the audiobook to know more.
©2019 Lily Love LLC (P)2019 Lily Love LLC
Mind Control Tactics of Gaslighters: False Image (Personal Support Included)
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Most people who are fooled by the gaslighter eventually start to question who he really is. He develops his fancy exterior, but the gaslighter rarely or never develops his interior. He works on his "look", but he doesn’t work on his personality. He is rough around the edges, at best. He only tries to fit in so far as it takes for him to gain trust with other people. The gaslighter wears the right clothes. He dresses impeccably. He pays special attention to his looks. He showers daily. He doesn’t leave the house without refining his look. He doesn’t need to be clean-shaven. He just needs to fit in with those around him. Don’t try to look too close at his false image. Underneath that false exterior, there isn’t really much to the gaslighter. The gaslighter’s wife often knows him for 40 years without really knowing him. If he does let her into his fragile interior, he is afraid that she will poke fun at who he really is. He is afraid she will laugh that he is merely a child beneath adult-sized clothing. The gaslighting man-child relates better to children because he never learned to relate to adults. He couldn’t carry on responsibilities of an adult alone if his life depended on it. His future terrifies him because he cannot fend for himself and must rely on other people all the time just for his own survival. He still watches Tom and Jerry on Saturday morning with his bowl of fruit loops. He does whatever he can to dodge his honey do list because he is too embarrassed or too lazy to tell anyone else that he doesn’t know how to do the stuff on the list. Buy the audiobook to learn more.
©2019 Lily Love LLC (P)2020 Lily Love LLC
6 Love Styles: Does Your Partner Love You?
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Have you ever wondered whether or not your partner really loves you? After all, exploiters and manipulators throw the word "love" around when they are vying for sex or material goods from their targeted victims. People say "I love you" when they are cheating on their partner or robbing them or putting antifreeze in their lemonade. They say "I love you" when they are cashing out the other person’s life insurance policy. The word "love" is thrown around and becomes meaningless in the wrong person’s hands. Some people believe in the word "love", but there are several ways that people can love one another. Your marital relationship might not be based on the same definition of love as your parent’s relationship, for example. Arranged marriages might not be based on the same definition of love as relationships entered into at-will. You love your friends different than you love your partners. It is even said that psychopaths love their friends much differently than they love their partners and siblings. Why should we worry about whether our loved ones truly love us in meaningful ways? People who love in all the wrong ways might cheat on us or take advantage of us. They may put us in the center of a love triangle and endanger our lives. We don’t want to waste our time and our financial resources on someone who is out to take us for everything we have. Predators are everywhere and knowing where you (and the people in your life) stand will ensure that you do not fall victim to others who are out to exploit and manipulate you. Knowing where you stand in your love style will also help to match you up with the right friends and partners. You can also learn the love style of your child or teenager so that you do not take their signs of love for granted. 6 Styles of Love Some people have heard of the book 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman. But have you heard about the 6 love styles or the color theory of love which was devised by psychologist John Alan Lee? Lee used various Greek words to describe the different styles of love that he believed existed in the human race. I am analyzing his various styles and adding my own narrative and perspective of the various styles to help you better determine which style you (and your lovers) might fall under. Getting to know ourselves is the very first step in finding the right partner and falling in love. If we don’t know ourselves, we cannot accurately find someone who will fit us for a long term union. Not everyone is meant for long term relationships. Those with social challenges often struggle to tolerate another person’s faults long enough to maintain the "happily ever after" fairytale. People with a high need for stimulation often struggle to fall in love with one specific person due to their own propensity for boredom. Love often takes time to grow and to cultivate into something real and deep and long-lasting. Some lovers waste time on those who have cheating personalities, and thus they may suffer through their entire life never... Buy now to hear more.
©2020 Lily Love LLC (P)2020 Lily Love LLC
Mind Control Tactics of Gaslighters: Demean, Devalue, Discard (Personal Support Included)
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There are many mind control tactics in the gaslighter’s bag of tricks. If you are interested in this audiobook, it is likely a gaslighter has set his sights on you. He is trying to drive you mad, and his malevolent tactics might be working. You don’t want to buy into the reality that he is trying to sell you; he is trying to shove his reality down your throat. The gaslighter is in a fantasy world all his own. Gaslighters go to extenuating circumstances to make another person feel unhinged. I have seen gaslighters break into their ex-partner’s home to steal random things. Or, they throw puppies in the swimming pool to make all the neighbors hate the dog’s owner. Or, they steal car keys and house keys to make a person’s life completely miserable. They hide their partner’s belongings, or they hack into all their accounts. Gaslighter’s meddle in all sorts of things in addition to subtly trying to mind control and exert their power and control over you. They make you question your reality so that they can go out and cheat and get away with it. They make you question your reality so that they can prove you crazy in a court of law. They make you question your reality so that the cops start questioning you when you call to report the crimes they’ve committed against you. Gaslighter’s will work on your boss to try to get you fired. They will convince your pretty girlfriend that you were the worst person they ever dated; then have sex with her behind your back. Gaslighter’s have tons of tools at their fingertips with the internet available. They can read strategy books on mind control, some of them written by the military Psychological Operations leaders – experts in... Get this audiobook now to learn more.
©2019 Lily Love LLC (P)2020 Lily Love LLC
Gaslighting: Trauma Bonding (Personal Support Included)
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I am the gaslighter with the ulterior motives and the agenda you don’t know about. I am the one who collected intel on you before we ever met. I am the one who hacked your accounts and let you log on to my computer, so I could get all your passwords. I am the one who spies on you and knows where you are at all times. Thanks to the electronics that are out there these days, I can always spy on your position. Did you know what? Of course, you didn’t because you don’t think like a predator. You don’t think like me. I am the one who watched all the sappy love stories, so I could practice being more like them. I am the one who listened to you so that I could memorize all the things you like to do and the foods you like to eat. I always remember your favorite dish. I remember how you like your coffee. I remember these things because I want to pretend that I am on your side. I laugh when you laugh. I cry when you cry. I watch all your cues so that I can get emotional at the same point in the movie where you get emotional. I know that I’m not emotional like you. I know that I’m not wired like you. My brain has been different from yours since birth. If I treat you like I don’t like you, however, you won’t see that. You will keep seeing that we are alike because I faked that we were. I painted the picture of our happily ever after. I gave you glimpses of it here and there because I know you like that. I gave you glimpses of your happily ever after when I wanted extra things from you. I gave you glimpses of it like it was the key to unlocking all your resources...because it was. I gave you glimpses of that fantasy in your head, too. Buy the audiobook now to hear more.
©2019 Lily Love LLC (P)2020 Lily Love LLC
Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) and Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD)
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Have you ever heard your child or your partner constantly say "I can’t" or "no" or "I won’t." Do you have a habit of turning down everyone who approaches you with a request? Do you feel that other people’s requests are unwarranted, unwanted, or unreasonable? Do you hate doing things for other people? Do you feel that other people put too much pressure on you? Does your child fight you at every turn? Does your partner only do things that he or she wants to do? Do they refuse to do anything that you want them to do? Do you have a partner who does everything but what you ask of him or her? Does he or she seem primed to fight about every little thing? Do you seem to bicker or fight every time you are out because plans change and the demand avoidance adult couldn’t cope with the change in his or her routine? Do you feel like the child or adult in your life is "no fun"? Do you think they are a "stick-in-the-mud", never stepping outside their boundaries or comfort zone to do anything exciting? Or, do they only do something "fun" when it is their idea of fun, but reject any invitations to join in with what other people deem as "fun"? Most people don’t realize, but the behavior they refer to as "stubborn" or "disagreeable" in others might actually be classified as pathological demand avoidance or oppositional defiant disorder. People with these conditions might have deficits in their memory, attention, or learning. They may struggle with demands that use too much of their mental energy. They may have a preference for tasks that are easier or things they have done repetitively. They tend to like to do things that they know, and they often detest doing anything that is "different" or "new". Pathological demand avoidance and oppositional defiant disorder can be a real burden for parents and teachers. The child doesn’t want to do anything he or she thinks they "can’t" do. The child doesn’t want to do anything except what he or she is "good at" or knows how to do repetitively. The pathological demand avoidant child might play video games all day. Pathological demand avoidance and oppositional defiant disorder might turn into criminal pathology later in life. The person might struggle with people in positions of authority. He or she might be fired from their job for refusing to do what their boss tells them. The PDA or ODD adult might lose multiple relationships due to their demand avoidance and their resistance to be agreeable in their relationship. They reject anything their partners asks them to do in favor of doing whatever they want to do themselves. Download now to hear more.
©2020 Lily Love LLC (P)2020 Lily Love LLC
Men Who Attract Narcissistic Women (Personal Support Included)
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In my years of writing about narcissistic personality disorder, most of my readers and listeners who read or listened to my material on male narcissists wanted more information on the female narcissist. I have since delved into the female narcissist to pick apart who she is and who she exploits so that I can share this information with you. Hopefully, in sharing this information, I can save some of you poor blokes from being exploited and damaged permanently by narcissistic women. In this audiobook, we will discover the 12 types of men who become prey to narcissistic females. Some women, in their plight for freedom and jobs, have accrued some unpleasant competitive traits that are damaging to relationships and family. In their solipsism, they can only view their own life of experiences (or lack, thereof) when they are considering divorces, custody battles, and changes in their careers. They rarely consider the feelings and goals of the partner with whom they’ve had children with, when they decide to pursue other opportunities. They also rarely consider the lives of their children. These women don’t consider the people around them. Buy the audiobook now to hear more.
©2019 Lily Love LLC (P)2020 Lily Love LLC
Hyperlexia and Dyslexia
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Have you ever heard of hyperlexia or dyslexia? Do you think that you, your loved one, or your child suffers from dyslexia, autism, hyperlexia, Asperger’s syndrome, Savant syndrome, Einstein syndrome, or other conditions of the brain? Any child or adult with a constellation of traits that can be diagnosed as a "syndrome" can be successful if they have the appropriate support. This book can help you get started on being able to tell whether you (or a loved one) has any of these traits, what to look for, and where to get more help. This book will help to teach you what these two conditions are and why every parent with a learning disabled or even a "gifted and talented" child should be aware of them. Knowing how to be able to tell these two disorders apart can help a parent determine whether their child will have a positive or negative outcome for the future. It can help a parent determine whether or not they should worry about their child’s deficits and whether they should seek additional help and training for their child. There are even couples and parent-child relationships where one individual is dyslexic and the other person is hyperlexic. Often, a dyslexic child or adult will accuse others of "saying things the wrong way". They might speak in passive voice rather than speaking in active voice. They might also think that other people are being too direct or being abusive if they make a request to them in an "active" voice. A hyperlexic person or a neurotypical person might think that dyslexic people are speaking in passive aggressive language, whereas a dyslexic person might think that hyperlexic or neurotypicals are speaking too much "proper English". Each may find the other person's language and approach as abrasive or shifty without even realizing why! Download now to find out more.
©2020 Lily Love LLC (P)2021 Lily Love LLC
Spotting a Gaslighting Trickster (Personal Support Included)
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Gaslighting is an insidious form of mind control and brainwashing. Most people don’t know they are being subjected to it until it is too late. With the advent of the internet, people are searching Google for ways to gaslight and brainwash other people. The CIA has done experiments to learn how to brainwash and control other human beings for military purposes. We are becoming more and more competitive in the capitalist society, everyone vying for their piece of the pie. Whole families, mobs and gangs are getting together to compete against other groups of people for resources. If we only see our own corner of the world, we don’t make ourselves aware of this danger that is lurking around the corner and making many of us anxious and paranoid by its very presence. Most of us give too much credit to those around us. We think that other people have our best interests at heart. We think that other people will give us the same decency and respect we give them. We think that other people around us are as loyal to us as we are to them. The truth of the matter is that gaslighting isn’t always intentional. Many people gaslight others by accident. This book will teach you the "tells" of a gaslighting individual at first glance. You will be able to easily spot a.... Download now to hear more.
©2019 Lily Love LLC (P)2020 Lily Love LLC